Self-Discipline: A Civil VirtueSelf-DisciplineAs Arthur Combs said “If our democratic society is to function effectively, it needs self-disciplined, caring citizens who are prepared to perform well. their own weight and contribute to their own well-being and that of their community. People learn self-discipline as they grow up. (Combs 260-263) If humans did not practice self-discipline, our society would certainly not be what it is today. Almost everyone knows what self-discipline is, but doing it can sometimes be a little tricky. How to Promote Self-DisciplineAccording to Merriam-Webster, self-discipline is “the correction or regulation of oneself for the purpose of self-improvement.” .” (Webster) Individuals perceive themselves and others by observing others through a learning experience. In order to build a society with self-discipline, individuals must practice “discipline by invitation.” There are four key elements to practicing “invitational discipline”: respect, optimism, intentionality, and trust. (Purkey 256-259) Respect Arthur Combs says, “They learn it (self-discipline) from the way they are treated by the important people in their lives. (Combs 260-263) One must have a deep appreciation of the complexities and uniqueness of others. Appreciation can be found through gracious and courteous behaviors. (Purkey 256-59) “Civility is complex. Civility is good. Civility belongs to the realism of ethics. Whatever courtesy is, it has to do with courtesy, politeness and good manners. » Prime Minister Forni used these last four points to help him straighten out his book “Choosing Civility”. (9) Civility is being aware of others. Considering others before yourself is a civil virtue. (Forni 9) Respec...... middle of paper ...... pull their own weight and contribute to the well-being of their community while ensuring that society functions properly and efficiently. (Combs 260-263)Works CitedCombs, author. “Achieving Self-Discipline: Some Basic Principles.” » Taylor & Francis, LTD 24.4 (1985): 260-263. JSTOR. Database. March 24, 2014.Rogus, Joseph. “Promoting self-discipline: a comprehensive approach.” Taylor & Francis, LTD 24.4 (1985): 271-276. JSTOR. Database. March 24, 2014. Forni, Pier Massimo. Choosing Civility: The Twenty-Five Rules of Considerate Conduct. New York: St. Martin's, 2002. “Self-discipline” in print. Merriam-Webster.com. Merriam-Webster, nd Web. March 27, 2014. Purkey, William. “Invite self-discipline from students.” Taylor & Francis, LTD 24.4 (1985): 256-259. JSTOR. Database. March 24 2014.