Last night I was dumped. My boyfriend and I went to Panera just down the gray, slush-covered street and I asked if he was going to see me before we left for the winter. But then he paused and said, “We need to talk.” » The scene I always feared played out in slow motion before me as my heart fell limp and incongruously shattered on the floor. Nonetheless, it wasn't until tears came to my (previously long dry) eyes and I begged him to fight for me that our relationship leapt off the faux wood table and entertained the customers who looked at me, occupied the scenes of my friends. " in the dorms, and gave a subject of interest to the bright little screens of smart phones owned by gossips I barely knew. But why did anyone but me care, I'm sure that if I showed equally commanding emotion on my differential equations grades, no one outside of my class would give an ounce of respect I argue that they care because sex and relationships matter. 'it contains have power in their duality of being universal and still unique to an individual via their experiences in tandem with their preferences. Thus, when a person emerges into the spotlight of a sexual situation, observers can examine the situation. , throw some visceral feeling into it, and, more importantly, judge it. This essay will address the importance of gender in international governmental relations and the intertwining of nations, as well as the unique context of a leader's sexuality in a situation of. public scandal, in order to highlight how this progression from private sexual fantasy to the public gaze is one of control and manipulation in efforts to portray people and the situations in which they live until that a scandal breaks out and the public is transformed from the middle of paper......to their sexual deviance and is supposed to take a step. fall back into immorality as soon as they get off stage. We are what we represent, whether it's the image of a virgin, untouched and pure, or a boy who has never been dumped and who causes a scene that will certainly end up on the local news in seven o'clock. The public view of private fantasy is what it is supposed to be, and it has shaped world history as we know it; painting happy marriages of adulterers and forming bonds between nations based on sheets that see only private fantasies between them until a male heir is born to parents who love cooking and help each other more than the other. Works Cited1. Foucault, Michel. The history of sexuality. Trans. Random House, Inc. Vol. Volume 1: An introduction. 3 flights 1978. Print.2. Lauren Berlant, Michael Warner. “Sex in public.” Critical Inquiry 24. No. 2 (1998). Print.