I then wondered why and what made us think that we could only choose one career. “Ask yourself where you learned to attribute the meaning of wrong or abnormal to many things. » (TEDtalk) I paused the video again to write my response, and I couldn't find a reason. With a bold attitude and firm voice, Emilie reveals that we learned this behavior from our culture. I am personally a very independent person. Plus, someone who stands up for their own positions and does what makes me happy, not others. However, over the years I have allowed culture to influence me in ways that have profoundly influenced and changed the way I view my identity.